How to Get Ready for a South Indian Wedding as the Bride’s Father

How to Get Ready for a South Indian Wedding as the Bride’s Father: A Guide to Traditions and Help.

How to Get Ready for a South Indian Wedding as the Bride's Father

How to Get Ready for a South Indian Wedding as the Bride’s Father: A Guide to Traditions and Help
A South Indian wedding is a lively party with lots of lovely customs. As the father of the bride, you are very important to making sure that everything goes well on this special day. This guide will teach you about and help you with things that are unique to a South Indian wedding. It will also stress your importance as a support system for your daughter.

How to Understand the Ceremonies:

Learn about the most important parts of South Indian weddings:

Sangeet is a party before the wedding with music, dancing, and fun. Families of the bride and groom used to be kept separate, but at some modern weddings, they are brought together.
In Tamil and Telugu, Gauri Puja is called Pelli Sthapana. An event where the bride and groom ask for blessings.
Kanyadanam: The most important part, when you, as the father, give the groom responsibility for your daughter’s safety. She does this by putting her hand in his and giving him gifts like a coconut or a betel leaf.
Saptapadi: To show their vows, the pair walks seven times around the holy fire.
What You Need to Do:

Financial Contribution: Talk to the couple ahead of time about how you will pay for things. Usually, the family of the girl pays for most of the wedding costs.
Guest Management: Help the bride’s side finish making the guest list and handle the emails.
Priest and Place: Help the couple find a priest (purohit) who knows how to do a South Indian wedding. Provide advice on how to pick a good location for the ceremonies.
Dress for a wedding: Wear something traditional, like a dhoti or a kurta pyjama. Make sure it goes with what the bride and groom are wearing.
Blessing and Support: Your most important job is to love and support your daughter through the whole wedding process. Be there for her, answer her questions, and ease her nerves before the wedding.

What a father needs to know about South Indian wedding traditions, duties, and making memories

Give a short explanation of what a South Indian wedding means and what the father’s part is.
Traditions
: Talk about important rituals like Kanyadanam and how they make you feel.
What you need to do: Describe the father’s practical duties, such as managing the family’s money, choosing a place, and managing guests.
Emotional Support: Tell your daughter how important it is for you to be her source of strength and comfort.
How to Get Ready for Kanyadanam: Advise on how to get ready mentally and emotionally for this stressful time.
Beyond the Ceremony: Talk about how to stay active and help each other after the wedding.
Some more tips:

Talk: It’s important for you, your daughter, and the couple to be able to talk to each other freely so that everyone is on the same page.
Accept the culture: Understand and value the cultural meaning of each ceremony.
Delegate: Don’t be afraid to give family members or a wedding planner jobs to do.
Have fun on the trip: Enjoy this unique time with your daughter and her family.
You can make sure your daughter has a beautiful and memorable South Indian wedding by learning about the customs, doing what you need to do, and being there for her emotionally.